I'm still here - just trying to juggle some contract work for an upcoming event, the boys and my household. I'm also trying to juggle it without letting myself get too stressed about it. Two migraines in the last 3 days would tell me that I'm probably not "rolling" with it quite as much as I'd like to think I am.
In the meantime - I wanted to link to this amazing post that Kari has done at Coffee Catharsis about Responding to the Need Not the Behaviour. I am always preaching this but she has summarized it and given an example in a way that I've not yet accomplished.